God Can Heal All Hurt
Sunday Morning
Pastor Jim Lowe III
Sunday Morning,
10/17/21 (3rd Sunday Message)
{All scriptures are NIV84 unless stated}
We talked about something very serious last week.
Something that effects so many people.
Maybe everyone to some degree.
We talked about church hurt.
Church Hurt Is Real!
Good
Church Hurt:
the harm caused by the church or its members to anyone inside or outside the church.
The harm caused by the church or its members.
“Another description is a pain that distances
What Are Some Examples Of Church Hurt?
When we tell someone they didn’t get what they wanted because they didn’t have enough faith, or pray hard enough.
When the church is too “cliquey.”
When the church members make fun of a member’s situation.
When the church turns their back on a single mom because she got a divorce from her abusive husband.
When the church shames the young woman because she got pregnant.
When a Pastor becomes exposed from some secret
These are all examples of church hurt.
We discussed the tactics of the enemy last week:
{John 10:10}
{Enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy…}
He is doing all he can do disrupt God’s plan.
- God’s plan for us.
- God’s plan for
The Thief Comes To Disrupt God’s Plan
God’s plan is for us to be here, loving one another and making disciples.
The thief wants to disrupt that.
He will allow us to be here and cause pain and trauma to others.
- “All in the name of the Lord.”
From last week:
The Church Is Supposed To Be A Place Of Growth, Safety and Covering!
Many churches hurt their witness.
They give out Christ…
But plenty of hurt as well…
Luke 10:30-34
30 In reply Jesus said:
The story of the Good Samaritan.
The Jewish man was robbed, beaten and left for dead.
The Priest and Levite passed by a man needing help.
This being the
Maybe they had their
“Maybe if he weren’t walking alone, maybe this wouldn’t have happened.” (Victim
“Maybe if he weren’t dressed like he had money, maybe this wouldn’t have happened.”
“Maybe if we stay here to help the man, maybe
“I don’t have enough money to help the man.” (Don’t check on him?
The Priest and Levite were considered the “church.”
What if the man looked up and saw these church folks passing by and not help.
What would this man think of the church?
ESPECIALLY after he recovered!
That’d be cause for some hurt right!?
Why didn’t the church help??
Perhaps It could be because they didn’t want to get their clothes “dirty.”
It went against “religious practices.”
But their practices didn’t go with this man’s right to love and help.
Too focused on religion!
We’ve Got To Stop Practicing Religion And Start Practicing Relationship!
Many of us are too focused on the rules and forget the simplest and most basic of what God told us.
Matthew 22:36-40
36
These are people who kept the law talking to Christ.
All of them were important.
All of them were to be kept.
Yet they ask Jesus what’s the greatest one?
And Jesus answered!
There is a greatest commandment!
The Greatest Commandments:
1. Love God With Everything!
This means with all you have to give it all and to love God over
But there is a second commandment!
It is like the first…
IT is important!
The Greatest Commandments:
1. Love God With Everything!
2. Love Others As Yourself!
The problem many churches have today is say we Love God,
But we don’t love one another
Our job is to cover.
To look out for one another.
Too many times we can be focused on the rule book.
The Church Is Supposed To Cover
Who Are We To Call Out Anyone?
{John 8:1}
Jesus was at the temple courts.
A woman was
The crowd wasn’t just filled with
Who brought her?
The Teachers of the Law
The Pharisees
More “church people.”
These people knew the law!
Yet they were ready to kill someone because they were
The church was ready to kill this woman.
Jesus says let the first person who hasn’t done anything throw the first one.
No one could do anything because they realized they were no better than this woman.
This is one way we hurt so many others.
We throw the rule book at them.
We make them feel like they are terrible people because of their sin.
But Christ is dealing with ALL of us and ALL of our sin.
We have to watch for people like that.
Be Careful
Be careful of the people who will judge everyone else but themselves.
That’s Not the Church.
None of us are without sin.
The Church Is A Group Of Flawed People Trying To Be Better!
We have been saved by grace.
We are saved because God said we are.
So what does cover and protect mean?
This does not mean that we encourage sin.
This does not mean that we “excuse sin.”
This means that there is a way we are to deal
As A Church We Are To Talk
What happened with the Woman caught in Adultery again?
John 8:3
3 The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before the group 4 and said to Jesus,
The law keepers (church folks) brought the woman in caught in the sin.
- They made her stand before the group.
They exposed this woman in front of everyone.
Why?
“Because she SINNED!”
“How dare she go against the law??”
What does Jesus do?
He was writing some things in the ground.
What is he writing?
No one knows…
Some scholars believe he was writing sins of some of the loudest accusers.
“You are an adulterer also.”
“You don’t keep any of the laws yourself.”
“You are a thief.”
“You were with her…”
Eventually Jesus speaks:
John 8:7
Jesus stood up and put them all on the spot.
Let the first one who is clean throw a stone at her.
Stones can be thrown…but only from the people who are truly righteous.
Romans 3:10
So he drops this “selah moment” and stops.
John 8:9
9 At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. 10 Jesus straightened up and asked her,
Jesus wait until the crowd was gone.
Jesus dealt with her one on one.
Jesus did not attempt to expose her.
Jesus did not attempt to shame her.
Jesus dealt
Another example of Jesus dealing with someone:
John 4:4-9
4 Now he had to go through Samaria. 5 So he came to a town in Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of ground Jacob had given to his son Joseph. 6 Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired as he was from the journey, sat down by the well. It was about the sixth hour. 7 When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her,
Jesus was on his way to Galilee.
He stopped in Samaria.
Met a Samaritan woman there.
He asked her for a drink.
She
John 4:10-15
10 Jesus answered her,
Jews and Samaritans didn’t talk.
They’re having a personal conversation.
She has now asked for this eternal water Jesus is offering.
Verse 16
16 He told her,
He asks for her husband.
She says she doesn’t have one.
Jesus says matter of fact!
He knows about her sin.
He knows every bad choice she made.
He knows every time she made a selfish decision.
He knows every time she may have lied, cheated…all of that.
He knew this from
And he deals with her personally.
One on one.
Not attempting to shame.
Not attempting to embarrass.
But to deal with it…WITH HER.
We spend to much time
We don’t spend enough time
God Has Called
We have to start making sure we cover the right way.
For Those Of Us Dealing With Church Hurt:
We established how all of us are imperfect people.
Yet that doesn’t always make it easy when people hurt us.
No matter what type of hurt we have dealt with.
God can heal it.
Don’t Let Flawed People Take Your Eyes Off God.
From last week:
Isaiah 57:15 (MSG)
A Message from the high and towering God, who lives in Eternity, whose name is
How do we begin to deal with our Church Hurt?
Dealing With Church Hurt:
1. We Have To Admit It To Ourselves
Dealing With Church Hurt:
2. We Have To Pray For Strength To Give It To God
Psalm 30:2
Once we have prayed for the strength to give it to God…
We have to trust him.
He tells us what we should do.
We now have to do what the bible says:
We have to do a very difficult thing.
Dealing With Church Hurt:
3. Go Talk To The Person Who Hurt You
There is no substitute for what the Word of God says.
Matthew 18:15
15
If someone does something to hurt you.
Go talk to them.
Many times we can work problems out just by talking.
SOMETHINGs may be based on a misunderstanding.
It’s Not always about being right or wrong.
Sometimes it’s just about addressing conflict.
Sometimes it’s the way someone said something to us.
Something is taken out on us unintentionally.
Having conversations can help fix that.
IF this is possible, this is how the word says we are to treat it.
And the very hardest thing we have to do with our own hurt:
Dealing With Church Hurt:
4. Work To Forgive
This is one of the hardest things we may have to do.
It’s so much easier to not deal with them.
But to let it go??
This may be next to impossible to do.
But the word tells us we have to.
Matthew 6:15
15 But if you do not forgive men
Jesus is reminding us that we are all flawed again.
Sin is in the world and we are all full of it.
But how can we ask for forgiveness for our sins if we REFUSE to forgive someone for theirs.
Forgiveness Isn’t Just For Others, It’s For Us As Well!
Ephesians 4:32
32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
I know it may seem impossible to just “move on” like things didn’t happen.
Many of us
But we have help.
God Wouldn’t Tell Us To Do It If He Wouldn’t Help Us Through It!
Even if we have to work on it daily.
Eventually we’ll get there.
Because God will help us.
Dealing With Church Hurt:
1. We Have To
2. We Have To Pray For Strength To Give It To God
3. Go Talk To The Person Who Hurt You
4. Work To Forgive Those Responsible
Things to do for this week…
Just like last week.
This Week:
1. Remember We Are Flawed People
2. There
{Conclusion}
Church hurt is real.
Too many of God’s people are carrying bruises from long ago.
God desires his church to be on one accord.
Remember we have to walk together.
We are all the same.
If we are dealing with Church Hurt,
We serve a God who can love ALL the pain away.
How do we recover?
How do we heal?
How do we forgive?
How do we move forward?
*If you are needing someone to talk to,
we are here for you.
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